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The Depressed Cheater

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The Depressed Cheater

  Have you ever been lied to or cheated on? I have. The year my divorce was finalized, I would have been married 20 years. I was told many lies during those years. And honestly, I was married to a really great guy, or so I thought. At first, the lies were small. Or, maybe he was just a really good liar and I just didn't catch the big ones for a long time. Over the years, what I realized was that each time he was caught in anything, there was a pattern. He would get busted, we would fight,...

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Manic Monday: The Men's Edition

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“If you don’t pay appropriate attention to what has your attention, it will take more of your attention than it deserves.”– David Allen Men, the year my divorce was final, that year would have been my 20th anniversary. I thought we had a pretty amazing relationship. Once I was diagnosed with cancer, that was my total focus. He had never been through any serious tragedy in his life and did not know how to deal with it at all. He turned to things that overtook him in order to deal with it and it ended up being at the cost...

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